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Having a Great Marriage – and a Special Needs Child

Thursday, January 26th, 2012
marriage for a special needs childJust when your world shifts with a life-changing diagnosis for your child, you may also be told to get support as a couple – because according to some stats, the divorce rate for couples with special needs kids hovers around 80 percent.
 
Okay … so along with significant stress, more monthly appointments than many people experience in several years, an intensified care-taking role and oh, by the way, all the same everyday demands of life, you’re somehow supposed to find extra time to nurture and care for the additional special needs of your marriage.
 
While our multicultural education materials promote cultural diversity in education, encourage healthy, active choices with positive affirmations for kids, provide ways to make your child feel special and help raise awareness for neurofibromatosis type 1 (NF1 for short) as well as other childhood health challenges, your friends at Bur Bur and Friends multicultural books strive to be a source of encouragement, hope – and some constructive, practical support.
 
So let’s focus on this statistic …
 
18 percent of couples with special needs children say their children have actually brought them closer together.
 
Here are some attitudes and tips that can help this be true for your marriage and life together raising a special needs child …
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How to Support the Siblings of a Special Needs Child

Monday, January 23rd, 2012
diveristy in the classroom
Just when your world shifts with a life-changing diagnosis for your child, you may also be told to get support as a couple – because according to some stats, the divorce rate for couples with special needs kids hovers around 80 percent.
 
The makers of Bur Bur and Friends multicultural education materials not only support diversity in the classroom but also recognize the added challenges when diversity is present within your home – between siblings.
 
The circle of friends within the Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children book series includes children with physical health challenges. Recognizing the many unique issues families with a special needs child face, Bur Bur’s popular childrens book series provides affirmations for kids, ways to make your child feel special and support for parents.

Because caring for a child with special needs requires so much added time and attention, other children in the family can struggle with:

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Letter Writing Tips When Advocating For Your Special Needs Child

Thursday, January 12th, 2012
In last week’s blog post, your friends at Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books pointed out why letter writing is a good way to advocate for your child with special needs within the school environment. (By the way, Bur Bur has been going to school as well – our multicultural education materials are being utilized within schools to promote cultural diversity in education.)
 
We had promised to give you some helpful pointers in writing effective and supportive letters (or emails) when advocating for your child at school, so here they are …
 
*         When formulating a letter or email, remind yourself that you and the professionals involved share a common goal – to provide a positive learning environment for your child. Keep the tone of your letter pleasant and businesslike. Give the facts and try your best to not let anger, frustration or blame slip in. You want to make a good impression through your letter so that the person reading it will relate to you, understand your request and say, "yes." Remember that the decision maker might not know you, your child or your child's needs.
 
*        When you need to write a letter to your child’s school to communicate a problem or a request, it’s a really good idea to mention what is working for your child as well. It helps to resolve a negative situation if you know what works well for a student. Plus, mentioning some positive aspects of your child’s education will keep the tone of your letter positive and help to develop a good partnership with school staff – which is very important.
 
*         Aim to clearly identify concerns, state your child’s needs and constructively propose possible solutions or request suggestions and alternative options.
 
*         When writing a letter, ask yourself the following questions and state the answers in your letter: Why am I writing? What are my specific concerns? What are my questions? What would I like the person to do about this situation? What sort of response do I want: a letter, a meeting, a phone call or something else?
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An effective way to advocate for your special needs child …

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

preparing special needs children for schoolWhile Bur Bur’s multicultural books for children are being utilized to teach diversity in schools and provide positive affirmations for kids, our diverse group of children with unique health challenges also strives to empower families with special needs.

The creators of Bur Bur’s multicultural education materials fully recognize the many additional hats a special needs parent wears. Along with providing the proper care in your home and within the medical and professional arenas, an important role of a parent with a special needs child is advocating for them within the school environment.
 
Even though adaptive programs and special services may exist within the school arena for children with medical, developmental and behavioral challenges, it’s the role of the parent to clearly convey their child’s needs and what is required for their child to have a positive school experience.
 
No one knows your child and understands their needs better than you do and when your child has special needs, it is even more essential that your voice is clearly heard. Although initially it may seem like an (more…)
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Share Your Story With Our Readers …

Saturday, December 31st, 2011
popular childrens story bookTell me the facts and I’ll learn. Tell me the truth and I’ll believe.
But tell me a story and it will live in my heart forever.
 ~ An old Native American proverb
 
Through the stories within the Bur Bur and Friends popular childrens book series, children are encouraged, motivated and inspired. These multicultural books weave positive affirmations for kids within fun storylines that instill the confidence to try new active adventures, get outdoors and take part in activities that promote preschool exercise and childhood fitness.
 
Within Bur Bur’s stories, kids meet new friends who represent different cultures and backgrounds and support cultural diversity in education. Our circle of Bur Bur friends includes children with varied physical and health-related challenges – each relaying a personal story that speaks hope and encouragement into the lives of others.
 
We believe that stories are powerful. Stories educate, motivate and make us more aware and sensitive. Stories also encourage us, strengthen us and empower us to use the abilities we have to live bigger lives and extend our reach.
 
So what’s your story? We’d love to hear it!
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A Special Holiday Message to you from Bur Bur and Friends!

Friday, December 23rd, 2011

Thanks for helping us get the message out about the good work we are doing. Our multicultural characters and products continue to fill the need of teaching kids about friendship, diversity, sports and self esteem. We are humbled and grateful for your ongoing support!  

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Little Free Library’s are Popping Up All Over – Visit One or Start One!

Thursday, December 22nd, 2011
little free librarysThe Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children book creators want to let you know about a way to build community and give through books that’s gaining a lot of momentum.

They’re called Little Free Library’s. The concept started up within the Midwest and they’re a great way to promote literacy, communitarianism and sustainability.

Anyone can register to be a Library Steward (that’s what you call someone who starts a Little Free Library and keeps an eye on their little social enterprise.) It’s easy and fun and you’ll contribute something of value to your community.

In a nutshell, a Little Free Library is a wooden box with a Plexiglas door that’s big enough to hold 20 to 30 good books. You can either build one or order one. You stock it with some good books and register your Little Free Library at http://www.littlefreelibrary.org/index.html. Their site has (more…)
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Something new for you to “CRAVE!â€

Wednesday, December 7th, 2011
minneapolis craveHopefully your Thanksgiving cravings were met by those once-a-year indulgences! I have to admit that there are a couple of recipes that I simply refuse to make more than annually – just so they set the day apart and add to a sense of occasion.
 
Well, on with some fun news! Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books are being featured in “CRAVE!”

We’re honored to join women business owners and entrepreneurs within CRAVE and support our local Twin City community as well as find out what go-getter women are doing all over the world. We appreciate the pulse of CRAVE and their spirit of adventure that encourages women to find a bit of respite, an exhilarating new activity, a brand new or even a like-minded business idea or the truly unique discovery present within their own hometown.
 
Through our Bur Bur and Friends multicultural activities for children, we’ve been inspiring children and families to have new, active adventures – so CRAVE caught our attention as they support new adventures for women. A new adventure can be in the form of a new delightful spot for you to explore and enjoy – or maybe your new adventure is the activation of your entrepreneurial idea and dream. CRAVE (more…)
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How to be More Thankful

Tuesday, November 22nd, 2011
best book for childrenDid you know that being thankful is really good for you?
 
Psychologists asked a group of people to spend just a few minutes a day for 13 days in a row thinking about and listing the things for which they were thankful. Compared to other control participants, these gratitude-focused folks experienced:
 
  •         Greater optimism
  •         Increased positive mood
  •         Improved feelings of belongingness
  •         Fewer physical illness symptoms
  •         More motivation to exercise (Suggesting gratitude may promote healthy living.)
  •         An increased desire to help and support others
  •         Lower levels of negative mood
  •         More sleep and better quality sleep
 Focusing on gratitude promotes psychological well-being and motivates pro-social and moral behavior. (Summarized from Psychology Today, The Benefits of Being Thankful, November 25, 2009.)
 
But that powerhouse list of benefits doesn’t even begin to scratch the surface when you consider that being a thankful person improves your (more…)
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Do You Know What This Blue Circle Represents?

Wednesday, November 16th, 2011
 
This blue circle is the global symbol for diabetes – developed as part of the Unite for Diabetes awareness campaign.

The significance of this blue circle is positive and hopeful. Cross-culturally, the circle symbolizes life and health, with the color blue reflecting the sky that unites all nations and is the color of the United Nations flag. The blue circle signifies the unity of the global diabetes community in response to the diabetes pandemic.

It’s our hope at Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books that you run into this blue circle this week as World Diabetes Day – November 14th – is observed.
 
Raising awareness for Diabetes resonates with the heartbeat of our multicultural children literature. (more…)
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Download Free Coloring Pages Kids Will Love!

Thursday, November 10th, 2011
While my kids were little, my mom had a medical condition that required her to spend quite a bit of time within a convalescent center. Every week I’d pack up my three little ones and we’d spend the day with Grandma along with other patients within this convalescent setting – visiting, playing games, watching movies and bringing in some fun treats and little projects to pass the time.
To be honest, I often had a heavy heart while I wished that “going to visit grandma” looked differently for my kids. I naturally wished that my mom enjoyed fullness of health and could be actively out and about with her grandkids (as I enviously observed other grandparents doing) as well as creating memories with them within her own home doing the things that she always loved to do. But instead she was confined to a wheel chair and struggled with a complicated medical condition.
Over the years, I’ve come to recognize that my children received something very rich and deeply meaningful from those regular visits to that convalescent center. Without (more…)
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Help Kids to ‘Change with Change’

Thursday, November 3rd, 2011

“The illiterates of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write
but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.” ~ Alvin Toffler

Help kids to change with changeEvery parent and teacher wants to inspire kids to be motivated learners – have that wonderful and healthy excitement for new experiences and information that broadens their perception of the world. But what about helping kids to “unlearn” and “relearn” as well?

Your friends at Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books recognize the necessity for all of us to learn, unlearn and relearn. It’s no secret that the rate of change within our world is ramping up – we all experience it and certainly at times can feel a bit overwhelmed by it! The way that business and life in general is done continues to evolve and change rapidly. The ability to unlearn and relearn is a (more…)

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Meet D.G. Bahtouh: Author of Nap-Nap, Quack-Quack

Friday, October 28th, 2011

"Nap-Nap, Quack-Quack" is a new children's book that will delight parents and kids everywhere. The story is about Maggie, a little duckling who becomes frustrated because nap-time is interrupting her play time. Her parents try to find the perfect routine so she will sleep. We recently had the pleasureChildren's book about naps is interrupting her play time. Her parents try to find the perfect routine so she will sleep. We recently had the pleasure to meet the author of this book, D.G. Bahtouh.  

We want to congratulate you on becoming a published author. Tell us about yourself and the motivation behind writing Nap-Nap, Quack-Quack.

Well, first let me thank you for this opportunity. I’m originally from Providence, Rhode Island and have been living in MN 6 years now. I’ve grown to love the Twin Cities, and the opportunitiesI have had to work and meet great people.  I feel inspired and honored to write because I have enjoyed books all of my life.  My daughter (Esthelle) was born a year ago and I started thinking creatively about how to introduce new concepts to her. I’ve been writing over 10 years in my spare time and this idea came to me when I least expected it.

How did the story come to fruition? 

The idea that came to me wasn’t a dramatic feeling; it was just a notion that accompanied a strong desire to tell the story. “Nap-Nap” came to me when I was poking fun with my wife about terminology. I asked her what parents say to make reference to nap time. She had no real response, so I figured if parents use “night-night” for bedtime, I guess its ok for me to use “nap-nap” for nap time. So it has been used in my house since.

I got the idea for the story; title, concept, characters, everything one day when I was preparing my daughter for her nap. She was wearing this one piece pajama outfit that was fuzzy and yellow and was just a cuddly, cuddly little thing. There was a little duckling caricature that sat on the top chest area of this pajama outfit. She was laying there, in my arms, eyes closed, breathing. The idea that came to me; it was just an idea that accompanied a strong desire to tell the story. I could feel her heart pulsating on my forearm. As I sat holding her, I envisioned the whole thing. I laid her down, and wrote the story in a short amount of time. My first juvenile fiction book! So it was more than appropriate that I dedicate the book to her.

What kind of challenges have you faced in the process of writing and publishing your book and how did you overcome them? (more…)

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October is National Disability Awareness Month

Wednesday, October 26th, 2011
national disability awareness monthWith the ever-widening scope of responsibility for parents and teachers, it’s easy to overlook the unique aspects of teaching proper etiquette in interacting with individuals who have disabilities. But considering that it’s estimated that 54 million Americans are disabled, it’s very important to provide kids with some basic etiquette guidelines as well as an overall sensitivity and awareness.

Through our teacher choice award and parent choice award winning multicultural education materials, Bur Bur and Friends supports diversity in the classroom while helping children to meet new friends with varied disabilities and challenges.

Providing your child with the following etiquette guidelines is not only an act of kindness and respect towards those with disabilities, it’s also an act of kindness towards your child by helping them to be more aware, sensitive and feel more confidently equipped when then encounter individuals with disabilities.

It’s a common error to assume that our kids will just know how to respond appropriately and be surprised or disappointed when they don’t. Like everything in life, we all need a level of knowledge and understanding to respond well.

Here are a few etiquette tips for interacting with those with disabilities:
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2 Fun Activities to Help Children Appreciate Diversity

Thursday, October 20th, 2011
As teachers dig into how to teach diversity, our Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books are being praised as a supportive way to promote cultural diversity in education and within family settings.
 
Along with reading Bur Bur multicultural books for children, here are a couple of fun diversity activities to try:
 
Multicultural Handprint Wreath

diversity activities for the classroom
This is a perfect visual of multicultural unity. Children can choose paper that reflects the handprint colors of friends and family members or even the multicultural friends  within Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books. Children can trace their hand, cut the handprints out and glue them together to form a wreath.
This is a great activity to keep in mind for different occasions, too. Use Mexico’s colors of green, white and red to celebrate Cinco De Mayo or use handprints in different shades of brown and black for Black History Month.
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