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If You Want Your Children to Grow Up In a Kinder World – Be Kinder

Wednesday, October 12th, 2011

instill kindness within childrenKindness speaks the words,
Your heart could never speak.
Your wings hold me up,
And give me strength when I am weak.
The warmth of your protection,
Brings music to my heart.
You open up the doors,
You show me where to start.
~ Anne Marie Cline

In last week’s Bur Bur and Friends multicultural books blog, we addressed bullying. No one can argue that the problem of bullying is big.  But you know what is probably even bigger?  Kindness.

Did you know that when someone has received an act of kindness, they tend to be more kind, patient and tolerant to the next several (more…)

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Is Your Child Being Bullied?

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011
how to deal with bulliesThere’s been a lot of press lately about anti-bullying legislation and school policies. For good reason considering that statistics reflect that each day 160,000 students miss school because they’re afraid of being bullied and that every seven minutes a child is bullied – with adult intervention happening 4% of the time, peer intervention 11% of the time and very sadly, no intervention 85% of the time.
 
As individuals, we may or may not be in a position to influence legislation and school policies about bullying but as is the case with every social issue, there is something each of us can do.
 
The Bur Bur and Friends iParenting Media Award and parent choice award winning popular childrens book series is a good way to build self esteem (more…)
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Visioning Bright Future for Kids: Counteracting a Negative Trend in Youth Literature

Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
multicultural childrens booksDystopian novels are extremely popular with middle school kids. A dystopia is defined as, “An imagined place or state in which everything is unpleasant or bad, typically a totalitarian or environmentally degraded one.”
 
In response to the huge popularity of these grim and seemingly hopeless backdrops within youth literature, a writer for School Library Journal recently stated, “More worrying still is the absence of any counterbalance … It’s as if optimism has become so hopelessly quaint that we can no longer allow ourselves even to imagine a better future.”
 
At Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books, we are envisioning a great future for children! We’re committed through our multicultural children literature to inspire kids (more…)
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An Apple a Day (and a Trip to the Apple Orchard) Keeps the Doctor Away

Wednesday, September 21st, 2011
positive preschool book

Fall offers so many great, comforting tradeoffs as its shorter and cooler days make us pry our once sweaty and tanned hands open and let the last of summer slip through our fingers.

The brisk, cooler air is just right for more time outdoors with no worries of slathering on sun screen and heat index advisories. And as our Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books encourage outdoor fun and activities for preschool kids and inspire elementary school fitness and preschool exercise – there could hardly be anything better than an outing to an apple orchard.

Think about all the positive things that an afternoon at an apple orchard has to offer your child … getting outdoors, breathing fresh air, being physically active, getting away from the TV, video games and sedentary activities, discovering and valuing the beauty of nature, learning about seeds, plant growth, the production of fruit and a greater understanding of where our food comes from and instilling an appreciation for eating healthy, simple, whole foods.

There’s good reason for the ol’ saying, "an apple a day keeps the doctor away" that was first mentioned in print in 1866. Here are a few of the benefits of crunching into a sweet, juicy apple:

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A Connection between Inadequate Sleep and ADHD Behaviors

Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
The calendar has flipped to September and the schedule for families has ramped up! Alarm clocks are set earlier for kid’s school schedules, after school sports are scheduled along with scouting, church and extracurricular activities, time for homework needs to find a place in the day and the weather is awesome so kids still want to get outside and meet new friends in the neighborhood … whew!
 
With all that packed into each day, it’s easy for all of us to get to bed later than we should – and for parents to let bedtime slide. But it’s really important to guard against insufficient sleep on a routine basis. Inadequate sleep has a lot of negative side effects including behaviors that can look like Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder – ADHD.
 
The National Institute of Health has stated, "Sleep deprivation can cause daytime hyperactivity and decrease in focused attention. This can be mistaken for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) or other behavior disorders."
 
An insufficient amount of sleep decreases:
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Never Forget – A Letter to My Son Written on September 11, 2001

Sunday, September 11th, 2011

"That's what it takes to be a hero, a little gem of innocence inside you that makes you want to believe that there still exists a right and wrong. That decency will somehow triumph in the end."  -Lisa Hand

Those who know me well know since my son was a baby I have kept journals where I write letters to him. Below is my entry from September 11, 2001 ten years ago. The day that transformed our world.

Today was a day that will change how we do things in America. I was on a conference call at work with some field leaders who work in the Carolinas and one of them told me what had happened. I could hardly believe it and went to CNN.com to see what I could find. The World Trade Center in New York and the Pentagon were attacked by some people who were not nice at all. My employer, American Express, told us if we didn't feel safe we should go home and we all left. 

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Little Ways to Build Self Esteem within Your Child

Wednesday, September 7th, 2011

children self esteemIn our last Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books blog post, we quoted Abraham Lincoln in his insightful and wise words, “Everyone is born an original but sadly most people die a copy.

Expanding appreciation for children and diversity through the multicultural friends within our iParenting Media Award and Parent Choice Award winning books, we’re determined to empower children and parents to be the unique original they were intended to be.

To be that original – it takes confidence and healthy self esteem. A lack of both is what causes many of us to relinquish those characteristics and dreams that make us an original and pressures us to settle for something less in life – being just a copy.

A simple definition of self esteem is that collection of beliefs or feelings we have about ourselves – our self perception. How we see ourselves has a big influence on our motivations, attitudes and behaviors and affects our emotional health.

Healthy self esteem is a child’s defense against the challenges of life. Kids with healthy (more…)
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Help Your Child Be an Original Instead of a Copy

Wednesday, August 31st, 2011
“Everyone is born an original but sadly most people die a copy.”
~ Abraham Lincoln
 
self worth and being origional

It’s unfortunate that the uniquely wonderful aspects of ourselves – that one-of-a-kind mix of talents, strengths and personality traits that make up the vibrantly beautiful colors of who we are – often becomes dulled over time as the strokes of conformity, uniformity and the price of acceptance cover up the original that we were intended to be.

As our multicultural children books highlight and nurture children and diversity and kids meet new friends within the rainbow of the Bur Bur and Friends multicultural

children,we hope that they not only embrace the diversity and uniqueness of others, but even more so hold close and accept themselves.

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Bur Bur and Friends is Highlighting a Book Written by Someone Other than Us … It’s You!

Thursday, August 25th, 2011
award winning childrens bookWhile we appreciate your great response to the Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children book series and the affirmation that these iParenting Media Award and Parent Choice Award winning books inspire preschool exercise and childhood fitness and highlight and nurture children and diversity, there’s a very important story being written that we’d like every parent to be aware of.

It’s the story you’re writing. Surprised? Didn’t think you were writing a story?

Each of us is writing the story of our life – and our collective family life- each and every day. Every day a page is written, each moment a line or two.

Sure, within every family’s story there’s a wealth of pages that reflect the infrastructure of daily life – going to work, doing laundry, running errands, disciplining children, etc. Granted – not always very riveting and not always the stuff that creates a real page turner.

BUT seamlessly woven between those paragraphs are the heart and soul of life itself! Those lines that you want to read and reread over and over again. Moments with your loved ones that will truly be written on your heart forever.
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3 Tips for Important Pediatric Doctor’s Appointments

Wednesday, August 17th, 2011
health tip booksThe children and diversity reflected within our Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children book series not only represent multiracial kids and different cultures, but also highlight an array of interests, strengths and challenges.  
 
Bur Bur’s multicultural friends help us to understand more about Blau Syndrome, Juvenile Diabetes, Cerebral Palsy, Down Syndrome and Neurofibromatosis Type 1 (also referred to as NF1.)
 
While the multicultural children  within the Bur Bur and Friends family encourage others with challenges to live great big lives full of new adventures, we’re also sensitive and aware that families with health issues face many stresses.
 
Because visits to the doctor may be a frequent and stressful part of your family life, here are (more…)
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Reading Enrichment Tips for Families From Bur Bur and Friends

Monday, August 15th, 2011
“Children are made readers on the laps of their parents.” ~ Emilie Buchwald
 
While Bur Bur’s multicultural children books inspire preschool exercise and childhood fitness by introducing kids to physically active sports and outdoor experiences, they also present you and your child with the rich, multi-layered benefits of reading together.
 
Sitting down with your child and one of the Bur Bur and Friends iParenting Media Award and Parent Choice Award winning books …
 
  • Sets the stage for meaningful bonding time between you and your child.
     
  • Helps to build confidence in your child while they experience new adventures through their Bur Bur multicultural friends.
     
  • Provides a safe place for your child to talk through their fears and concerns.
     
  • Lays the foundation for a love of books and reading.
 
Try these reading enrichment tips while you and your child meet new friends and enjoy these (more…)
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St. David’s Fall Festival themed “Get out and Grow!” – Join Us!

Monday, August 15th, 2011

Bur Bur and Friends, encouraging families to get active and educating kids about diversity, sports and outdoor explorationJoAnne Pastel and Kakie Fitzsimmons, authors of the award winning Bur Bur and Friends® children's book series will be making a guest   appearance for a book reading and signing on Saturday, October 1st, at The St. David's Center Fall Festival. Come out and meet Bur Bur!! 

The theme this year, "Get out and Grow!" is a free event for the whole community and will feature up-close encounters with animals and nature as well as interactive art, music and health-boosting activities that will get families having fun outdoors! New activities this year will include Forest Frolic, Kids Dance, Taekwondo, yoga and a surprise flash mob from participants in the St.  David's Center Adventure program. 

St. David's Center embraces differences in children of all abilities which is why we were so pleased to be invited. Our multicultural children's books educate kids about diversity, inclusion, sports and outdoor exploration. Come meet our characters here!!!

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Tips to Help Kids Stay Active and Safe in Hot Weather

Thursday, August 11th, 2011
There is no season such delight can bring
As summer, autumn, winter and the spring.
~William Browne

 
Like most everyone right now, your friends at Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books are a bit wilty if not weary of the hot weather – but we insist on being upbeat and positive!
 
Absolutely every season of life AND weather has something uniquely wonderful to offer that just shouldn’t be missed! I noticed on a walk the other morning that the wild berries are red and ripe, tiny little baby frogs had just hatched and the wild flowers are bright, full and lush.
 
The Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children book series encourages preschool exercise, elementary school age fitness and outdoor adventures all year round that build self confidence and self esteem in kids.
 
The days are already growing shorter and back to school information is being popped into mailboxes, so … carpe diem! (more…)
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Preston and Our Unexpected Gift of Down Syndrome

Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011
There is so much joy, anticipation, wonder and love that go into pregnancy and parenthood. As our due date approached, we found ourselves daydreaming about what our second child would be like. Will he look like me? Will he have my husband’s blue eyes? Please, let him be a better sleeper than our first!  We never pondered if he’d have a disability—it wasn’t even on the radar. I guess we figured we’d have a perfect baby, just like our first. There was nothing telling us different.

Before we knew it, I was at the hospital laboring with the wonderful support of my husband, doula and midwives. This is the moment we’ve all been waiting for! (more…)
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Summer Camp = Campfires, Smores AND Nervous Tummies!

Tuesday, August 2nd, 2011
5 Tips to Prepare Your Child for Summer Camp

children summer camp bookOh, the wonder of summer as a child … from the simplicity of sitting on the front step and licking a grape popsicle to the excitement and anticipation of heading off to summer camp and having new adventures!

Bur Bur and Friends multicultural children books want to help your child grow, experience and enjoy the magical moments that summer has to offer. Bur Bur encourages preschool exercise, elementary school age fitness and new outdoor activities that build self confidence and self esteem in children – and so does summer camp!

As fun as camp crafts, games and activities may sound, your child might feel as though they’ve already caught a few fireflies – in their tummy!

So here are a few tips to help your child meet new friends, enjoy some new outdoor adventures and have a great time at summer camp:

1.      1. Watch YOUR language!

Even though it’s true that you’re going to miss your child, switch comments like “I’m going to miss you sooo much!” to “I’m sooo excited for you and all the fun things you’ll get to do at camp!” It’s completely understandable to be a bit nervous yourself to send your child off to camp – especially the first time – but (more…)
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